好母亲第一季

今天刷完第一季，发现居然和大爆炸一个出品人，挺治愈的，但越看越觉得不仅治愈那么简单，就好像你找了个治愈系妹子，然后发现她不仅真的治愈，同时还可盐可甜，捡到宝的感觉😊尤其是老妈去主厨家用棒球棒砸红酒那段实在是太震撼了，感觉超奇妙，而且最后主厨居然还因为这个臣服于她了

而且，里面很多梗我居然都看懂了，还觉得好搞笑〜(￣▽￣〜)好羞耻啊

一上大学就有人给我安利美剧，也不知道为啥。说是看美剧能提高口语和听力水平，考四六级的时候还能用上。反正没过多久身边的同学就开始纷纷追美剧英剧了。一开始高中那种不能浪费时间在与学习无关的事情上的封建理想阻碍着我看剧。后来一遍遍告诉自己它能提高考四六级成绩。追剧的恶习形成了。

那时候寝室分三波，一波看shameless 一波看Mom 一波看the Big Bang Theory 。我是属于三面派，谁在看我就去谁那里凑热闹。对，寝室里有四个人。

然而，第一次考四级时，我们寝室就我一人没过……她们说是我看得太杂了……后来我才想通，我看剧的时间是她们的三倍。

Mom是我觉得剧情大过表演的唯一一部剧，不知道是导演的个人喜好还是怎样，感觉剧里的每个人就只有几个表情：耸肩摊手、鄙视脸，无奈、大笑、there there脸。什么场景套上什么脸。当然了编剧还是甚得人心的。

我一定要大大的安利一发！！ 真的真的真的太好看了！！！ 好看到我一口气补完了前三季。 里面的人物有血有肉，笑点也很好笑。 也有很多人生的哲学道理。 喜欢到不行。 希望她们能一直更新下去！！

有时候也有观点碰撞和争辩。不过因为这种沟通形式最大的益处是能够让自己不断审视自己的过往，用更平静的方式跟他人沟通，也可以说是自己建立了一个心理建设机制，让自己逐渐趋向好的一面。不久的将来在大城市的我们也将步入陌生人社会，越来越会在人前伪装，而自己那些不堪的过去更加不愿意呈现在人前，其实我们也缺乏一些类似的“互助会”，这样的由陌生人组成的小团体可能更容易满足大家的心理建设需求，工作亦或者生活方面。

• Bonnie, nothing changes if nothing changes. Just do one thing different and see what happens.
• Jill, you are in actions business. God is in the results business.
• If you always seek the validation of other people, you will never be content, because you're making them your higher power.
• If everyone I meet's an ass, maybe I'm the ass.
• Your bottom's when you decide to stop digging.
• Stop telling people how to live their lives, when you can't even figure out how to live your own life.
• Fake it till you make it.
• You learn how to do a job by doing the job.
• What works for me when I'm in doubt is to just do nothing...until I'm absolutely sure.
• For once in my life, finish something I started.
• That takes guts, takes character.
• Sorry, you don't get to take the easy way out.
• These words stick in my throat like a chicken bone. 如鲠在喉
• You got to suck it up and do your best.
• Psychologist: But sometimes all you can do is stay close, and let them find their own way.
• M: You just crossed the line, from feeling your feelings, to feeling sorry for yourself
• M: Bonnie, just because you think it, doesn't mean you have to say it.
• C: I've turned into that obnoxious(令人讨厌的) sober person, who tells everybody how to live their life.
• Thanks, baby. You always bring me back down to earth.
• But you picked yourself up and...... start over.
• The program isn't just about meetings and bad coffee, you also have to do the work. You know, you have to dig down, try to discover the reasons you do what you do...

--Jill, you've got a hole inside. You've had it your entire life. You tried to fill it with drugs and alcohol, sex...But there's nothing that you can buy or eat or sleep with that's gonna fix the real problem.--Well, all I know is I got to do something different because what I've been doing sure ain't working.--That's a good start.

• --Sweetie, I think if you have to ask the question, then you don't(love him).

--But I really feel like I should. --Just because he's a thousand times better than anybody else you've ever dated doesn't mean he's the one.

• Because if you're stuck, you're a victim. There's power in making a choice.
• --Look, I don't have a lot going for me growing up, but winning people over was one of my strong suits.

-- And I am sure it served you, but you don't need it anymore. Let me ask you something, Do you like yourself? 'Cause that's the only person you should be concerned about.

1.是我喜欢的且丧且治愈的类型，其实丧多于治愈，不过大家互帮互助，相互依偎的感觉很好。 2.原生家庭的影响真的很大，但是能怎么办呢，抱怨解决不了任何问题，只能move on。 3.清醒之后，生活并不会变好，只是变得清醒而已。 4.伤害过的人，做错的事都不会消失。虽然大部分时候，我们是站在主角视角上，只是，偶尔显露的被主角伤害过的人，让人不免反思。 5.后期把主线从儿女调换成互助小组好评，女儿真的不讨人喜欢。